There is no better place to rub shoulders with someone and feel close to fellow humans, than public transportation. Especially if it is a minibus, packed far beyond its capacity, like it usually happens here in Armenia. Don’t know why, but anyway – this is not about transportation, this is about something else.
I couldn't help but overhear an interesting conversation today – a girl who was sitting right next to me was talking on the phone. In fact, I only really heard one side of the dialog, but as you will see in a moment, it wasn't hard to guess the rest. Here is how it went:
- I just asked your opinion on whether or not I should go…w hat do you mean by "do whatever you are well pleased?" I AM asking your opinion, am I not?
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- No, I haven't decided anything yet; I just want to know what YOU think.
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- Yes, I did reserve the tickets already, but…
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- Well, I expected you to say something like: "It's okay to go" or "I will go with you" or something…
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- You know, if my sister is asking me to come and stay a year in France with her, then it probably IS important, she wouldn't ask me for no reason.
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- You could come with me, you know. You have relatives there, too.
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- You can stay in a hotel…
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- Well, I am sorry for you if you can't afford it, but…
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- No, I don't always do, as I want. In fact, I usually do what YOU want me to do.
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- For example? For example, when you made me quit driving. I am riding a bus even as we speak, only because you asked me not to drive!
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- AND you asked me not to take taxis!
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- No, I can't ask YOU for a ride every time I need to go somewhere! You wouldn't like it either if I called you twenty times a day asking for a ride.
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- You know, my dad didn't like the idea of me driving, but even he finally gave me permission.
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- The point is, I do what you want me to do, so you can't say I don't. I even quit my job, so you can be cool like that and say, "My girlfriend doesn’t drive and she doesn’t work and stuff!"
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- So I listen to you!
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- No, I can't come right now!
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- No, you can't pick me up! I AM IN A BUS!!!
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- So what your grandma is coming, I can't come right now. You should have told me earlier she is coming.
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- Fine, I'll go home, change and call you!
(End of conversation)
I could have commented volumes on this, because as it happens, I believe in equal rights and dignity and other such things. But I won't. I felt like asking that girl (a good-looking young lady of about 22-24) a few question, but I didn't do that, either. What's the point? The bus reached my house by then, anyway…